Woman Advice Please !

So I've been dating my Scorpio F/ 24 for 3 months now. I'm a Pisces M/28 last Friday I had my birthday party early at local restaurant/bar. I had all my close friends job the party. I had a DD who did not drink all night. I obviously had more to drink then everyone else. I'm not a big drinker I might add. So I threw up in the bathroom.

My Scorpio brought it up to my attention on Monday my actual birthday feb 24th.She bought me a very nice thoughtful gift, let alone one for my sister since her bday is the day after mine. I just had a dinner with her and my family only. So I noticed something was wrong with her. So we talked after dinner. she did not want to talk about it, but I told her we might as well. She said I was rude for not apologizing for my actions right away on Friday. I know it's a little my fault for allowing my self to get drunk but it's the only day of the year I do that.( not the best excuse) I told her I had no idea I was rude she said I kissed her after i threw up that I understand her being mad about. But I asked all the friends honest opinion, and they said I was acting pretty mellow.

So she said she needs time to think about us. I called her Monday night after she got home and apologized once more . She said okay , I'll ttyl something like that. I text her on Tuesday night saying: Hey just wanted to tell you I've been thinking a lot about what you said. I want to apologize for what happened Friday, it was really selfish of me, and I'm sorry that I put you through that. You have every right to be upset. It will never happen again. I know it will take time to make it up to you. I hope you have a goodnights rest. Sweet dreams

She said: well i'm glad you've been thinking about it. goodnight, sleep well

Wednesday Morning I texted her : Good morning Hope you slept good .
Not sure when your leaving to SD to see your sis, but wanted to say drive safe . Text me when you get there, so I know you got there safe .
Her: thank you. i think i'm going to go tomorrow instead. have a nice day.

I texted her later that night : Just letting you know I'm thinking about you . Hope you had a good day . Night

Her: thanks, sleep well.

So two days go by and friday she texts me at 11:50 pm hope you had a nice day goodnight.
I texted back thanks you too. Saturday I called her to figure out what we're going to do about us . In short she says lets keep dating and if I want I can date other people. WTF?

So sunday she texts me , hey hope you had a good day yesterday ( probably cause I went out with some girls and they tagged me on IG ) I said it was great how was your's her: pretty good can't complain. Me : cool have fun baking with your mom! tell her i say hi ! her : ok will do

Last night she texts me at 10 pm How was your day? Me: good and your's her: it was good, first day back at work so it was nice. ME cool cool Her : did you work on your truck today? Me: nope still waiting on the parts from the sponsors. Her : oh i see Me: night her :goodnight

Does she really want me in her life ? I really care about her let alone love her family. We've gone from being in a relationship to dating and not seeing other people to going to just dating in 3 months. I seriously i have idea what to think. We had a similar talk a month ago.. I want this to work out any advice? Or should I bring it up how disappointed I am?

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Compliment her. She will have a glow about her for days! Men, pay attention. I share some great tips here for you.

A high quality woman is the type of woman that you normally don't meet at a bar, club or party. This type of woman usually hangs out with her girlfriends, at the yoga studio, Whole Foods or a women's business event. One thing you'll notice about her is her positive energy and the happiness that radiates from her.

I know many of these amazing and  awesome women because they are my clients, friends and in my social network.  I meet these women weekly and when I travel. Problem is many of these gorgeous and amazing women are single!

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Quality Connection: In the past, it was the man's role to financially provide for the women and children. The modern woman enjoys making her own money. She will also gladly accept a gift or a dinner out if that is what you want to provide for her. Want to learn secret number one? The modern woman wants a quality connection with you. The limbic region of the woman's brain is twice the size of a man's. The limbic region is in charge of feelings and connection. The nature of a woman is to connect. She wants to share feelings. If you learn how to provide "connection" with a  woman, then she can feel safe with you.Trust: I know you men are visual. When you first see a woman, you check her physical appearance. If you aren't physically attracted to a woman, then you won't be sexually attracted to her. For a woman, the key to attraction is through her heart. Make her feel safe. Connect to her. Make her feel special. If a woman can trust you, then you open up a whole new universe with her....in more ways than one. Notice her beauty: When your woman is happy, then you are happy. You are happier when your woman is happy and content. One way to make her happy is by complimenting your woman. "I love that color on you. That brings out your eyes." When you authentically compliment a woman, she will notice that you are paying attention to her. Notice how much happier your woman is when you compliment her. She will have a glow about her for days. Hint, hint! 

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The only thing that gets her hot and bothered… is you! If you're tired of drama queens, it's time to seek out a low-maintenance lady!

Yes, you read the title right. Drama-free women do exist! If in the past, you've attracted women who are never happy and you are done with the drama, then listen up to these 9 stellar reasons why a low-key lady might be the best thing you didn't know you were missing!

You love being around her positive energy. You feel happy being around her. You enjoy the positive energy that emanates from her heart. On the other hand, a drama queen leaves you feeling drained, and if you are near her you want to depart.You feel inspired to be a better man. My male clients tell me that after they have found their dream woman, they feel like they've attracted their muse. They're working out more, traveling, exploring new things in the bedroom, and even making more money. What sounds unappealing about that?There are no "games". The only game you'll be playing is horsing around, making jokes with each other, and maybe having some new fun in the bedroom. The childish games of her not speaking her mind or giving you the silent treatment are games of past—games a drama queen knows well.She is happy. You are happy. End of story!She is open to try new things. Yes, a drama-free woman likes to explore, learn and grow. She never assumes that she knows everything, and is open to try new adventures with you. She isn't closed off: she's open in more ways than one! (Hint, hint!)She believes in you! There is nothing better than being with a woman who believes in you. You and I both know that a woman can either bring out the best in you... or the worst. Dating a drama-free woman who believes in you can allow you to focus on work, make more money or cultivate the life that you want to live.She has her own life, but wants to share it with you. Yes, you heard me right. She has her own life. No more worrying about a woman jealous of your late work nights because she at times has to work late herself. When you have your poker night, guess what? She has a girls night out. When the two of you see each other, you've missed each other and are excited to reconnect. Want to know what happens when the two of you miss each other? Absence makes the heart grow fonder.She asks for what she wants and needs. At last! You don't have to guess what's on her mind because she'll let you know if something is bothering her. Oh, and she'll say it in positive and healthy way. The two of you will communicate with honesty, integrity and compassion. On the other hand, a drama queen would storm out of the room and wouldn't talk to you for hours or even days.She is doing great things in her life. She's volunteering at the women's shelter. Or maybe she's taking a pole dancing class on attuning to her own sensuality as a woman. Or perhaps she has her own business or career that she loves because she is making a positive contribution to the world around her. Drama queens spend their time talking about how much money their sugar daddy is spending on them, gossiping, or complaining.

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Hello I've recently moved out and my old neighbour whom I've known for 10 years came over for a visit. After a few drinks we ended up kissing and cuddling in bed. Should I feel guilty? Or should I pursue this further? I've always had deeper feelings for. And I have noticed shuttle hints she feels the same way

If it were me, I'd feel guilty, yeah. And forgetting guilt or the right and wrong of it for a minute, even if you don't care about that, fooling around with a married person can be just plain dangerous.

Imagine how unhappy her husband would be if he knew what happened. He would be heartbroken. So yes, I'd feel guilty if I were you. Cheating is never a good idea.
If you care about this woman, ask her to choose between you and her husband. If she doesn't love him, maybe she should get a divorce?

Is their relationship on the rocks? If yes then you should make her choose between the 2 of you. If not then I would advise you to not go further with this woman, since cheating is so wrong. Wait until she gets divorced before you pursue her.

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Embracing The 'Invisible Woman': How I Learned To Age & Stay Sexy

Still sexy after all these years. I may not be turning as many heads as I used to, but I'm evolving into a different kind of sexy.

It seemed only a few years ago that I attended my stepmom's 50th birthday party. I remember how cool she was, with all of her kicky, nutty friends, all guzzling champagne and prancing around like Bianca Jagger clones. I remember being the young one, the 30-year-old, the unmarried, child-free punk sporting platinum spiked hair and clad in a man's tux.

I was in awe of these women. I imagined that each one of them went home to closets filled with Chanel and Yves Saint Laurent, and that their bathroom shelves were cluttered with high-end beauty products that a mere youngster like me could only dream of having one day — when I was rich, older and perfected in my female fabulousness. 

These women were lawyers and writers, consultants and artists. They'd each known their fair share of sex, drugs and rock-n-roll. Despite the facial lines that told the tale of lives well lived, they were each, in their own individual way, sexy as hell.

I caught up with one of them in the ladies' lounge that night. She was one of those marvelous British beauties, a Julie Christie type, so full of bounce and mischief. Sweeping a stray lock of sandy bleach blond hair out of her eyes, she said to me, "You know, Dori, of all the women here, you are the only one getting any male attention."

That took me aback. I had noticed that a few men had struck up conversations with me, but I didn't pay it any mind. It wasn't really much different from any other day. Besides, I told her, look at what I was wearing. My hair was bleached, my eyes were lined in streaks of black, my skin was alabaster — and I was wearing a tuxedo, which, if I recall, was part of an ensemble that included a top hat and a walking stick. I was Brigitte Nielsen doing Putting On the Ritz. You'd have to be several kinds of blind to not notice me.

She smiled knowingly, and explained to me that it wasn't my outfit that turned heads. It was my youth. She went on to tell me that although she felt she was a popular and attractive woman, barely anyone seemed to noticed her anymore when she walked into a room. She said she felt like she was bordering on transparency: that she was becoming an 'invisible woman'.

I spoke with my stepmother about this and she agreed; her days of turning heads were over. In fact, they'd been over for almost a decade.

I suppose, at the time, I could see their point. I wasn't looking at these women for their superficial beauty — though that was a part of what I noticed. I was looking at them for their sophistication, their worldliness, which I found to be far superior to anything physical. The idea that even these women come to feel invisible to men past a certain age was not even a concept to me at the time. And it certainly wasn't something I'd anticipated for myself.

Recently, a younger woman of 35 expressed this 'invisible woman' idea to me. She said it was already starting to happen to her; that her grand entrances weren't causing the same kind of splash that she had once received — that she wasn't even being catcalled anymore (ironic how we tend to miss things we once loathed). She wanted to know if I, being a card-carrying member of the infinite sophistication and worldliness club, had experienced this, how it had made me feel and what, if anything, I did about it.

Knowing why the she came to me with this question, I initially felt like Ye Olde Crone, and immediately pictured myself draped in the robes of a hag, my once dandy silver-topped walking stick replaced by the dead branch of an old oak tree. But I sucked it up and gave the woman the only answer I thought truthful: "Yes, it sucks. It all bloody sucks."

The truth is, youth — no matter what it looks like — is perceived as beautiful. And even more so, appealing to men. Youth glows. Youth is what allows us to get away with everything. Too heavy? Doesn't matter. Youth makes it look alright. Not particularly attractive? No problem. Youth will gift you with skin that's elastic enough to soften your flaws and an overall vibrance that people pick up on. Put a fine looking 55-year-old woman next to a not-so-fine looking 20-year-old woman, and there's a whopping chance that when it comes down it. the sexual choice is going to be the 20-year-old.

Because, as long as we're hormonal, being someone's sexual choice seems to mean a lot to us. Which brings me to the real answer to my younger friend's question: Yes, I've noticed that I no longer create a stir when I enter a room. And yes, it was a harsh realization, having identified as and interacted with the world for so long as a young, attractive woman. The time I cared most about this transition was back in my hyper-hormonal midlife crisis between the ages 40 and 50. Yes, those damn 40s. That's when you really feel like an invisible woman. All that good skin, all that tight stuff: it starts to get wigglier and wobblier. And that's just the face I'm talking about. Don't even get me started on the body!

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Feminist Or Not, Every Woman Wants To Sleep With A Superhero

"Like Peter Pan, or Superman, you will come to save me." - Aimee Mann It takes a strong man to want to be a hero to someone. And it takes a strong woman to let him.

It's pretty clear why men fantasize about being superheroes: they're strong, powerful and revered. But face it: women fantasize about superheroes too. We love to dream of being seduced by Henry Cavill as Superman, Andrew Garfield as Spider-Man, Ryan Reynolds as the Green Lantern. It's not just the jacked bod, the jawline, the superhuman strength and intellect, not just the unwavering moral compass or diehard patriotism. Whether your superhero of choice is an alien, a dark knight, or a rich recluse with really expensive toys, there's one real reason you want him: You want to be saved.

Somewhere along the line, it fell out of favor to admit this. I went to an all-girls Catholic high school where we studied women’s history and asked dates to our own dances. Men weren’t part of our daily lives—they remained on the periphery, as an extra-curricular, some distant, fuzzy destination. Playing fields were being leveled, gender was being neutralized. The message was clear: You don't need anyone to save you. You can and must save yourself.

Of course, I'm glad I learned this early on. After all, if I didn’t believe I could stand on my own two feet, I wouldn't be where I am, thriving as a self-employed woman in New York City. As a dating and relationship expert, I know that the expectation we're fed from an early age that 'the Perfect Man will make your life complete' is dangerous indeed. As is the notion that you must be married to him to achieve the fullest expression of yourself. I don't buy any of that.

Still, all that education, all that tough-girl thinking, wasn't enough to blunt the potent and swoon-worthy sexual impact of watching Christian Bale dive out a window to save Maggie Gyllenhaal and land breathless on the roof of a car. Because who wouldn’t want that to happen to them?

Of course, women are always falling in these movies. Flailing and death-bound, from a great height—a skyscraper, an aircraft, hurtling through space. The feminist in you may repudiate at this, but the romantic in you will yield—after all, what do women want more than to fall for a guy? And then, to be caught. Lois Lane doesn't "need" anyone—she's a Pulitzer-prize winning reporter, a brave, ballsy woman who takes more than a few risks of her own. She doesn't need Superman to complete her, to make her life worth living. But she could use a hand when she's catapulting toward earth. And when he swoops in to catch her in her moment of vulnerability, she's pretty much sold on him.

It has taken me a while to come around to the idea that I can be a strong, independent, self-actualized woman and still want the comfort of being taken care of, of being saved in some ways. Saved from what? Whatever I need saving from. Intruders. Bullies. My own occasional dip towards self-loathing and doubt. And even more than that—to enjoy the saving. I spent so many years fighting off this urge, standing guard instead against anyone who would even try. And there's nothing more confusing to a man than saying you want him but doing everything you can to prove you don't need him.

It wasn't until I allowed myself to be open, to be vulnerable, that I found I could enjoy the very thing a man wants to be—strong, masculine, confident. My hero. That to allow a man be what he strives to be doesn't take away from who I am or what I can do.

On a first date a while back, my date and I were talking about the recent rash of NYC subway accidents. People being struck left and right. He told me how, a few weeks prior, he'd seen a man fall, drunk, onto the tracks. Without a thought, he dropped his bag and jumped down there with him. He and a few other brave souls helped haul the man, and him, out in time. I already thought he was adorable. And I knew that was a dangerous and foolish thing to do. But now I wanted to kiss him full on the mouth.

Granted, it was great story to tell on a first date (and part of me thought, "Well played, sir"). But six months into dating him now, I believe it. This is a man who's willing to help other people, including me. One night, we were lying together quietly and he said, "How do you feel when you're with me?" And I said I felt good, and calm and happy. "Do you feel safe?" Yes, I said. I do.

A younger, more defensive me might have possibly made a joke about this. Safe from what, the boogey man? What do I need you to keep me safe from? I can take care of myself, thank you very much. But I don't feel that way anymore. I realize now that it takes a strong man to want to be a hero for someone. And it takes a strong woman to let him.

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4 Brainiacs Every Woman Should Date [EXPERT]

These men make being a 'geek' look a whole lot sexier. If you've been passing over the nerds in your life, you may be missing out on The One.

Smart guys sometimes seem to get a bad rap. Their level of intelligence may make them appear to be pompous or they can even come across as standoffish. Or, because they have a linear train of thought, they may not have much to contribute to a conversation that is not of interest to them. These brainiacs are often misunderstood and just like other singles, they are looking for someone to date. 

Before you dismiss these types as incompatible or not your type, add these types to the list of guys to date while searching for The One:

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1. The Wine Snob Foodie. This guy is going to take you to the best restaurants, wine tastings and may even book you tickets on The Top Chef cruise. He knows the perfect Bordeaux to order with dinner, the best Zagat-rated restaurants and the names of all the James Beard winners for the year.

He will provide you the greatest culinary experiences and show you a world that often is limited to a chosen few. He can educate you on differences between farm to table or local, organic versus natural and how sparkling wines simply do not compare to champagne. He may be overly opinionated or slightly pretentious but you will never go hungry with him around. 

2. The Bookworm. The first date might be for coffee at Barnes and Noble. The second may be a live reading from the latest author on the New York Times Bestselling List. He is protective over his Kindle and prides himself on his extensive in home library. Not limited to one subject, his range of interest varies from classical fiction to literary trilogies.

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He speaks about characters in novels as if they are family members. He's never short on conversation because the latest book he's reading serves as his topic of the moment. You may not always know what he's talking about but Spark Notes and Google will get you through. You can always suggest watching the movie version to compliment his literary fascination. Keep reading ...

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Im having a baby with a woman who already has one.

Hi Guys. Im very happy to hear I am having a baby. I was scared at first but i like the idea of being a father. However there are issues. She has a baby with a man she was dating for 5 and a half years. Her kid is 2 years old and they splitup in April! not long ago. she is 5 weeks pregnant. She hasnt told her babys father yet! me and her have been dating since June. So not ling at all. I really like her and I am man enough to support her through pregnancy and beyond.

Here are some ideas i have had. Do I arrange to meet her babys dad for a talk, just to say that we need to get along as his girl and my child will be step siblings? show him im a decent guy. her and him arnt on very good terms. Do I talk to her about moving in together when the baby is born etc? Im also kind of worried that her abf her first babys father reunite and my child isnt treated equally. can anyone help me?? cos they arnt broken up long. she says she is over him! but i suppose I wont know!

HELP!

It certainly sounds like she is over him if she's allowed herself to become pregnant by you. I wouldn't push a meeting with her ex - let it come about naturally. It's up to her to tell him about the baby - if and when she wants to. I'd say leave it until she's past the 12 week stage and you know the pregnancy is safe. It's possible to miscarry before then.

As for moving in together, that's something you need to discuss together later. Get used to the idea of being parents first, and get to know each other better. Your relationship is still new, so just give it time to grow.

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Do All Men Make You Mad? The Bitter Woman

How women who are dating over 40 can recognize the Bitter Woman FemiType and avoid becoming it

In an effort to help you understand the man side of this midlife dating experience, I’ve introduced you to The Princess, The 18 Year Old, The Scaredy Cat and The Wow-Me Woman: all FemiTypes* that send good men running.

Today I’m going to talk about perhaps the most challenging of all FemiTypes: The Bitter Woman. She is a little scary, a lot angry, and all about being a victim. Not only does she scare and briefly traumatize the men she meets, but her bitterness probably seeps into all areas of her life.

So buckle your seat belts; this may get a bit bumpy. The good news is that you will probably not recognize yourself here – though I’ll bet you have a friend or someone else in your life who is The Bitter Woman. (These are not women to talk to about your search for love, btw.)

Who hasn’t had periods of feeling bitter? Whether you’ve been passed over for a promotion, had a crappy childhood, or had a man do you wrong, by this time in your life you’ve taken a fair share of hits.

A grownup woman accepts that life does not always go her way. The Bitter Woman does not. She marinates in her victimhood and anger, making most anyone who crosses her path pay for her disappointment. (Especially the men.)

Not coincidentally, The Bitter Woman constantly meets bad men who piss her off. She may start with "He’s great!", but she will always get to "He’s a total asshole." When it ends (and it always does), she is even more convinced that all men are jerks. Her toxic anger then reignites, and she is ready for the next target.

When it comes to assigning blame for her crappy love life, she is all about pointing fingers and never about looking in the mirror. It doesn’t occur to her that the lack of a great relationship in her life has anything to do with her. It’s all about lousy men and bad luck.

Perry’s Story

"I actually met her in the grocery store. She was attractive and I liked her spunk, so I asked for her phone number. We had a good phone conversation, and at the end I suggested we meet for coffee. She said something like 'Oh…you don’t take women you meet in grocery stores to dinner?' I told her I thought coffee would be a good start, and if we wanted to we could move on to dinner.

"I could tell within minutes after we met that she had a chip on her shoulder about me not taking her to dinner. She made a couple of snarky comments about it. And the rest of the time she was bashing her first husband and all her online dating experiences. I couldn’t get out of there fast enough! And then she had the nerve to email me wondering when we were going out to dinner. She was scary. I can’t imagine any guy making that woman happy."

Perry was a nice enough guy. He was making an effort to get to know her. She knew next to nothing about him yet was already assuming he was a cheapskate or a jerk…and he knew it. I’m guessing that she was telling herself something like "here we go again…another one just like the rest."

He was put off by her demanding, negative attitude and then relieved when he escaped before dinner. In the end he feels he dodged a bullet…and he did.

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