I asked her to be friends, and I'm getting mixed signals. What does it mean?

I'm 25 and my ex is 20. We dated for 10 months and she became really distant with me due to talking to her ex and I believe some confusion in what she wants. She kind of made it clear by her distance and us not talking that she didn't want more from me. So I stopped contact. She came back apologizing and telling me she needed me in her life so we kind of started talking again...however the distance began to happen again and I knew I had to remove myself from the situation. It felt like an off-on thing, and I felt like I was just getting led on with my emotions so I gradually stopped asking what was wrong and what I meant to her and just kept my distance. She tried talking to me a few times, and seemed okay with us talking. She sent me a morning text which was kind of awkward cause I had not received one in 2 weeks....
I suggested being friends a few days ago, and I asked her if she was happy with that, and she said "I guess"...So I questioned that and she told me she didn't know what she felt. I told her to think about it. On her facebook she posts lyrics to a song that is about unrequited feelings and not knowing if your time has passed to tell the person what you feel. (i dont think is a coincidence)
I then talked to her a few days later asking her if she gave it any thought and she seems really distant....she told me she didn't know and that she was not in the mood to talk about it now because she was in a bad mood.
I am not sure entirely what is going on here....but she is really closed off.
Help?? I thought she wanted friends....but than she seems....off?

In my opinion she needs more time to figure out what she needs. So the only thing that you can do is to avoid her for a while.
But if you still have feelings for her, don't try to hide it. Talk to her for the very last time, tell her that you care about her and then stop contacting her. Let her make the next move.

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After a few months I finally plucked up the courage to ask her out. The reply i got was quite unexpected. She said that she had a bf who knows me (more on that in a second) and that she knew everything about the history with my friends. I then asked her how and she replied that they all tell each other everything so she got the full hipster knowing my friends.
Then she said that she hated a couple of them to which I agreed with her as they haven't been nice to me in the past. I then got a message to say that she hated me. I said that I'm not like them in anyway to which she replied wtaf. Then she said that she really hates me. I asked why and then she said basically you're a c**t and that she doesn't want to talk to me.

I'm not sure whether or not at that point her bf took over (as they have access to each others fb accounts) or she actually meant it.

As for her bf, there are no pictures of her with anyone, but some of her girls friends. Her relationship status is single and all of our mutual friends are either in a relationship with someone else, or single.

I'm still crazy for her and deeply care for her, but I just don't know that best way to approach this.

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