She makes fun of my penis :(

Hello, I am 14 (not sexually active) but some other stuff and my gf is 15. Well in front of my 'friends' she always says stuff like; "what penis" or some joke about how it's small. this makes me kind of upset. I know that my penis is pretty big for my age 5.2" long and 5.1" girth... That is pretty big right? Or am I just panicking? I don't know but I'm really losing confidence and lately I've had difficulty getting a hard on...

Your penis isn't small. She's just joking around, don't take it seriously. Next time she makes a joke about it's size make a joke back about the size of her boobs or something! And you know often teasing is a girls way of showing that she likes you.

Nice to get some advice from a girl! Thank you, I'll just look at it as knowing she still likes me.

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3 Chemicals Your Body Makes On Dates

Love is a chemical reaction. Wondering how to understand your feelings? It's chemical. Video

We are all a walking chemistry factory.  Everything we do.  Every action we make, affects our chemistry. I’m not talking about chemicals from drugs we take but the ones we make on our own.  It’s the chemicals created in our bodies that directly coincide with dating. 

Meeting people, falling in and out of love can be quite an exciting thrill seeking ride. Watch the video below to see what chemicals you're making when you date.

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Anyone can be surprised at how simple it is to dramatically change and improve your dating experiences.  I like to remind everyone that they don’t have to be perfect dating is all about practice.  So remember the person you’re with doesn’t have to be “the one” it can just be someone. 

Take these opportunities to learn from the experiences and interactions that come with dating which is a process I personally like to call "rehearsal dating." Now practice the tips shown in the video above and make sure to let me know how it goes.  All you have to do is leave any questions or comments below.       

P.S. If you're serious about relationship chemistry and commitment take these tips into consideration.

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Thank you James!
I just went out with a guy who is just the way you described it (feminine energy man), and was such a turn off! He started as a ten and as you mentioned, he did not give me any material, nor protected me (he actually crashed his bike against mine and I fell off the ground), and he cares about his feelings, not mine. So even though he seems like an amazing guy (in so many other areas), all these things put together were such a turnoff! And he keeps himself poor! Jees...Thank you for putting it in such a clean cut way!

 Do you give too much?  Do you have trouble receiving? When you understand what to say and how to say it to a man you will attract and keep the man you want to be with for the rest of your life. Having been alone for many years I know how painful and frustrating it can be not to know why or what to do or say. However as a result of what I want to share with you I'm now happily married. It's been a long journey and I want the same for you because in the end love is all that matters. It's possible and you deserve to be loved for who you are inside. Contact me and find your way back to love from the "Inside out Outside in"..

Much love,

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A Beautiful Mind: How Personality Makes Us More Attractive

You think he's cute now? Wait'll you get to know him! When looking for love, beauty really is only skin deep.

Single and searching? Matchmaker and life coach Susan Alper has some interesting insight on how physical attraction isn't the most important piece of the puzzle. Instead, she suggests you dig deeper and get to know someone you may have overlooked: their good qualities might just make them seem like a better catch.

As a professional Matchmaker, one of the most challenging things I have to deal with in my job today is online dating. Sadly, this practice only focuses on pictures of potential candidates; the dating scene has become very visual. I really try not show pictures of clients, unless it is an absolute must.

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Why do I follow this policy? I have never met anyone (except models) who looks better in a photo than they do in real life. Why am I really successful at my job? It could be my sales, PR and marketing background that helps me promote my client as a total package. Because that's what we are: complete people, with a lot more to love than a great smile or nice eyes.

Being physically attracted to your partner is important, but if you base attraction solely on a pretty picture, you are probably not going to be able to come “out of the box.” In the dating world, this means coming outside of your comfort zone. Men tend to focus more on a specific type of look in their search for a partner, while women often pursue the perfect whole package or bigger picture. That is why there are so many single women! It isn't until they realize that the "perfect" man doesn't exist that they are able to open their mind, expand their options and find love.

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I have even been able to fix up couples with the complete opposite of what they originally wanted. Why, you ask? Before I sign on potential clients, I conduct a consulting interview. At that time, I suggest they make a few changes to their wish list and be more realistic about their potential partner. Keep reading...

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Contrary to what sitcoms tell us, there aren’t too many couples who met at the produce section of local supermarket and the internet is a scary place for many. Believe it or not, I get most of my clients after they’ve had bad experiences online dating. I’m not knocking the web, it actually works well for some people, but the complaint I ... Read moreSee More

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What Makes Men Husband Material [EXPERT]

Do you want a provider, a partner or both? Four factors to consider before making a life-long commitment.

What is "husband material" anyway? If you are single and looking for Mr. Right, this question has probably crossed your mind more than a few times. If you are a romantic, you probably think the sparks and fireworks you feel every time you are together will be your guide. If you're more pragmatic, you likely have a list of attributes you want, and you dismiss men who don't live up to those expectations. Both of these approaches require modification to accommodate real human beings with strengths and weaknesses. With that in mind, let's consider how to look for the best traits in a lifelong partner:

1. Know yourself. The more you know about yourself, the more you can share with your date. Sharing your whole life history on the first date is probably too much information. Ideally, give him little spoonfuls of information about yourself and see what he does with them. Does he change the subject back to himself, or does he seem interested in your feelings? Do you feel comfortable exposing your feelings to him, or would you rather keep them to yourself? The key to successful relationships is to find a balance between not sharing anything and sharing everything.

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2. Know him. If you want a quality man for a lifelong husband, then accept him for who he is today, not who he might be in the future. Everyone chooses to continue to grow, or they get stuck where they are at until they have sufficient motivation to change. What you want to see in him is the openness to change and grow over time. Take your time getting to know him; intentionally disagree with him and see what happens.

Pay attention and be aware of his habits. If he "forgets" to brush his teeth, remember, you don't have have to kiss him. Everyone, including you, has annoying habits. When you choose each other for a lifelong relationship there will be qualities you adore in each other and qualities that are a bit annoying.

3. Know your dealbreakers. Dealbreakers are behaviors and attitudes that would cause you to break off the relationship. They might include poor hygiene, poor employment history, and/or cheating. If you don't want to be cheated on or lied to, tell him. Look for clues from his behavior to tell if he is being open and honest with you. Identify for yourself how you want to be treated by a lifelong partner. Consider whether he is willing to accommodate your dealbreakers. If not, be ready to leave the relationship. He won't magically change in the future. Keep reading ...

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