Girl stops contact after 3rd date (LONG, sorry)

So I'm sure stories similar to what I'm about to post can be found if I scroll through the forums enough, but I guess I want to naively hope my situation is different. Sorry for the length of this.

Anyways, there is a girl that I texted for a good portion of December, we had our first date on Dec. 30, ended up seeing each other for a little bit on New Year's Eve, and then hung out the following Saturday which was like 4 days later. She's 21 and lives at home, and her sister was heading back to college the next day. So she invited me out to her house because she said her sister wanted to meet me. So I met her family and everything on our third date, I was ok with it though, because I do like her and had kind of already made up my mind that I could see a relationship with her. Anyways, I thought the night went well, well enough that I kissed her at the end of the night, though it wasn't smooth, and I'm now not sure it was welcome. She texts me on the way home, " Thanks for spending your night with us " I texted her when I got home that I had a good time and really liked her family, and then made a joke about the kiss. No response, but she occasionally doesn't respond late at night, so I wasn't going to stress about it.

I didn't hear from her the following day (Sunday), sent her a really short text Monday, still no response. So Tuesday I send a message that says, "I called earlier to apologize for the way Saturday night ended. I misread the situation, and I'm sorry if it made you uncomfortable. I'm not sure where things stand on your end right now, I feel like not good. But feel free to call or text me if you want to hang out more or get things back on the right track." She responded about an hour later with the following, "No I'm sorry! I'm awful at responding to messages and I really need to get better at that. I was happy that you came over and I was just nervous or awkward because not too many people come up to the house and I wasn't sure how everything was going to go."

I sent her a response to that saying I understood, and that I'd like to get together sometime soon to watch a movie if she is interested. No response. The next day sent I her a message saying I hope she had a good day at work, no response, and here I am Thursday afternoon, still no response, and more confused than ever.

So I guess I come to this forum because I really don't know what to think of her responses, or lack thereof. I'm of course overanalyzing everything, but on the other hand, I may be trying to overlook the pretty blatant ignoring of my texts because I want things to work so much. I don't think that her and I went 5 days without at least texting in all of December, so it doesn't seem like doing that after the 3rd date is a positive sign. On the other hand, she could have easily just not responded when I said feel free to text me if you want to get things back on track. What's the play from here? Give her more time? Move on? I don't want to be one of those guys who just don't pick up hints, but I also don't want to quit if there still seems reason for optimism.

*I should also say I don't THINK she is dating anyone else. She has a pretty religious family, and I don't think she would bring me to meet her family if there were other guys. I can't say that with 100% certainty though.

I can't figure out how to edit, but I feel like I should also add, I have a concert date with her planned for 10 days from now that I set up with her Saturday night. She hasn't cancelled that at this point, though that doesn't mean she won't. Part of me just wants to call her and say I like you, how do you feel? But another part of me is tempted to just play it cool and hope I can pick it back up if this concert date happens. I'm not sure if the potential of another date should influence my current response.

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Why would she contact me again... What does she want?

I saw this girl in the summer. We are both in our mid 20's. We were never really officially together, and the whole thing only lasted about a month and a half. We were extremely emotionally and physically intimate with one another. I started getting real feelings for this girl, but it was only after she told me she had feelings for me. Then.. out of the blue in early August she broke things off via text message.. I was very hurt by this, and contacted her asking what happened. She was extremely vague at answering me. I gave it a month, gave her a goodwill message asking her how she was... she never responded. I gave it another month.. early September I sent her another goodwill message... she didn't respond. So I've just learned how to move on. I still thought about her from time to time, but the pain eventually eased. I felt no closure, very blind sided... and worse I missed her quite a bit. I've had flings before, but this one in my eyes was really different. I really felt something for her.

Well... 2 days ago she emails me telling me she is now ready to be friends and apologized it took her so long to reply to me. I responded to her email yesterday. I divided the email into 3 paragraphs... one of them told her how I was.. the next one (and most important one) I told her how she hurt me, exactly how I felt, and I didn't understand what she was doing. The third paragraph I asked how she was. I figure.. why not bring it all out in the open right? The worst thing that can happen is she ignores me or doesn't speak to me, which I've learned to live with.

She emails me back telling me she's a bad communicator and that she didn't have an explanation at all other than "it just didn't feel right". She apologized for hurting me, said she was truly sorry. She did not, however, answer my question "Why now? What drove you to contact me now?" I responded to her second message reiterating that question.

What do you think she wants? I don't understand how she can ignore me for almost 3 months and talk to me out of the blue like that... then tell me she doesn't have any explanations other than "it didn't feel right".... even though that statement in itself is so contradictory to what she told me and felt no longer than a couple days before she broke things off. I'm scared of 2 things here.... 1) I'll get feelings for her again, and 2) She will get feelings for me. This girl really hurt me... but honestly it felt really good to hear from her. So.. what does she want? What should I do?

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Why i am so scared to contact him? PLZ HELP

I went to school with him in a year. We are both 18.

We graduated here in June. I told him I didn't wanna lose contact. He said, "We will meet, dont u think? At the street or something, and if I can, I will visit you at your new school." (he went to that school before) He's one of the sweetest!
When I saw him for the first time in school, I could see something in him that I couldn't see on other guys. Something good... I really wanna become close friends with him first, but I never had a boyfriend before or something.. I really like him!! He is single.
Do you think he likes me?
He showed me way home with bikes when I was lost.
We had eyecontact and smile the whole year.
He came to me when I falled from my bike.. and asked if i was okay.. lol
I was in a group with him in 2 minutes without talking to him, and when I finally went away, he was the only one who said "Sleep well." with a smile.
We followed together when we was going home.. He said he didn't want me to be alone in that midnight.. aww...
He's very kind, positive, open, amazing, beautiful, nice personality.. I love his smile.. Everything!!
I just don't know if he feels the same.. But I surely don't want to go desperate..
He also sometimes approach me, showing me picture of a panda while he is smiling at me... <3
I was VERY afraid to ask his number, like he will reject me or something, but I finally got the gut to do it and got it.. When we seperate that night, he texted me "Hey hope you comes home very well. Take care of yourself " .. We even gave each other the last hug, it wasn't just a hug, but a very tight and long hug.. I didn't want to take my hands away.

Now I am very scared to contact him... I dont understand.. It's because I was rejected in the past... But now I REALLY MISS HIM ALOT....
I want to be more with him, just be with him, cuz I really like him a lot... I really haven't seen him since the late of June..

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