So I dated this girl for about a year and a half during h.s. long story short we had problems and broke up. She moved on very quickly which basically killed me inside. So I accepted a football scholarship in a different state. But, now I'm back for a few weeks for winter break and we are both single. I have honestly really never stopped thinking about her. I'd like to think that i'm over her but, I tried to get into a relationship over the summer with a girl who was absolutely amazing and i messed it up because I kept comparing her to my ex. Anyways my mom has been giving me a lot of **** lately to just ask my ex out while i'm back home, my ex's mom has also been telling me to do the same.
Now, this girl was my first love I was head over heels for her. and now after about 10 months of being broken up i still think about her a lot. We speak about once a month so it's not like we flirt and its giving me false hope. Her mom tells me she speaks highly of me and wants to re kindle the flames of the past but i know her well and her mom is a meddler so i am not sure I can trust what she says.
Anyways I really want to just ask her out and see what happens but for some reason I am absolutely terrified. I think it is just because I am scared she will reject me on the spot and i'll look like a total jackass. But, I am a very fearless guy. I dont generally fear what others think nor do i fear rejection but I do not want to waste time on false hope. So should I just go for it and tell her that even after all this time I still can't get her out of my head? I have grown up a lot since we have been together and I really think I can be her match but what if I have changed in a way that is no longer her match? As you can probably tell i am freaking out about this. So should I just grow a set and ask her out. if so how? and should I go full blown date or just casual coffee.. HELP
I think you should just ask her. You dont want to one day regret the fact you didnt. You are only going to know if you're still matched if you give it a try. You never know, she might be feeling the exact same way. Sometimes when a girl moves on quickly its because shes so upset she wants to do anything to block out the pain and try to take her mind off it. Iv done the same in the past
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