Hi all,

I've been dating a 32 year old Taurus girl for about 3 months. Maybe 6 or 8 weeks ago we kind of indirectly had the conversation to be boyfriend/girlfriend (her friend said we definitely are in front of us and hence we both agreed). When we're together ( most of each weekend and we spend the night usually once during the week ) things are excellent. Affectionate ( although cautiously so in public ) amazing sex for both of us, and we're on the same wavelength. I'm a cancerian guy and normally don't fall for girls but I am for this one.

However, she's currently interstate for a couple of weeks for Xmas with her family and I feel so distant. I feel like if I don't txt her or call I won't even hear from her. We've spoken twice in 8 days, and both times briefly. She hasn't sent a single msg of affection or that makes me feel special. Most times won't even out a kiss on the end.
I still text every morning and night and maybe if there's something to say during the day, and she will respond usually but it almost feels like I'm intruding.

We had an amazing Xmas dinner and spent the night a couple of nights before she left so our last time together was perfect. We had a conversation then about us, and she said she really likes me, although she has said at times we're only just starting out. We have made a plan to go to a friends wedding in Thailand late feb as she agreed when I asked her a couple of weeks back and later said she appreciated me making forward plans. We haven't booked yet. We also have NYE plans together with her friends. She gets back from interstate on NYE.

Right now though I feel distant and just feel unimportant and that she's not that into me. I've felt for a little while I,like her more than she likes me which is odd for me - I'm used to girls chasing me. I'm just out of a 3 year relationship (ended 5 months ago) and she has been single for four years.

The other issue I have is facebook. She won't acknowledge me on there. Won't accept a photo tag of both of us and definitely wouldn't say 'in a relationship'. She's never mentioned me on her page. We are friends. She says its because she doesn't like to share real personal stuff on FB and its just her outside life. I actually don't think she has another guy she's interested in but I still find it odd. She's quite appearance conscious (cosmetic surgery etc) but most people say I'm a very good looking guy.

Do you think she's just slow to trust and open up her feelings? Just inattentive and caught up in her life when she's away? Or do you think she's really not into me? Or more importantly is this a taurus thing? Reading seems to indicate so.

As a cancerian it's doing my head in and giving me anxiety! :-(