Waiting too long to make a moveJust because a girl is on a date with you doesn’t mean she is into you. She could just be using you for attention, but most girls will not get physical with a guy they are not into.
It is in your best interest to kiss her on that first date so you don’t have to waste time on a second date with a girl who might not be that into you.
I want to thank the Stupid Cupid bloggers for writing their article. I had to write this one to give the male perspective.
I’m not saying Stupid Cupid can’t give advice to men, but what I find most of the time is when women give advice to men, they usually say what girls want and don’t tell guys what girls respond to.
This means they will tell you how they want you to act when they want a kiss, but they don’t necessarily tell you what to do to make them want to kiss you.
Take it from a guy who has kissed a lot of women, all you really need to do is go for it and the women who want you will kiss you back.
Sunday, March 2, 2014
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Monday, February 3, 2014
Why A Super Bowl Party Is The Worst Place To Score A Date
Single and ready to mingle during The Big Game? Think again. A new survey from It's Just Lunch reveals The Big Game is not The Game Of Love.Ladies, if you've been putting a lot of thought into your Super Bowl party outfit in hopes to impress a new guy, don't waste your time!
A new survey from It's Just Lunch, a dating service for busy professionals, talked to 1,400 singles and found that your Super Bowl party is not a good opportunity for new romance.
More from YourTango: Love Horoscopes For February 2014While the Big Game is a huge social event, filled with beer, food and fans, don't expect to get your flirt on. Here's why.
1. Men Want To Focus On The Game, Not Love
This is pretty predictable, but could easily be forgotten by people who aren't that interested in the actual game. Even though you will find many men at the bars, parties, and other social events, you won't find them being very social. In fact, 45 percent of men said the game will be the highlight of the night — versus women who are more excited about socializing. Save your best pickup line for next weekend.
2. Women Are Focused On The Halftime Show, Not Love
During halftime, 42 percent of men take the break to grab some grub and chat. But they're not chatting with the ladies. This is the time when 45 percent of women are more focused on the television. How is anyone supposed to get to know each other if they're glued to the TV at different times? Well, they won't.
3. Men Don't Want To Talk About Football
Even though 36 percent of women brush up on the teams before the game, only 27 percent of men would even think of striking up a conversation with a woman who is knowledgeable about the sport. Didn't study beforehand? Well, that's still not getting you anywhere either because only 17 percent of men would want to take the time to teach you anything about it. Woof.
4. Everyone Is Too Busy Drooling Over Peyton — Including The Fellas
This may not surprise anyone, but when asked which player they'd want to have lunch with 71 percent of women picked Peyton Manning, along with 75 percent of men. Yes, the guys love him more than you do!
However, if you're in a relationship, you have a good chance of going to the Super Bowl. The study found that if they scored tickets to the game, 53 percent of men would bring their significant other as a guest over friends and family, and 55 percent of women would do the same.
More from YourTango: Scent-ual Seduction: How The Right Smell Can Leave You LovestruckSo you might not score a date this Sunday, but with the Oscars and Valentine's Day ahead, February will be filled with more social events, more chances to mingle and more opportunities to wear that flirty outfit.
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Saturday, October 5, 2013
The Best (& Worst!) Foodie Date Ideas
A food festival or fair is a creative way to get to know someone better. Don't let your dining date turn into a disaster — follow this matchmaker's advice.The dinner date has a long history of being the most popular activity in the early stages of courtship. However, when the recession hit, singles started getting more casual and creative. What's new on the dating scene? For starters, the coffee or green juice date suddenly became appealing and happy hour made men's wallets extra happy. But if you're still excited to get out and enjoy the culinary delights that your city has to offer, there are plenty of choices that will fill your belly, but won't break your bank.
Most cities have food festivals, offering everything from a taste of local fare to specifically-themed ethnic food. They're always fun, with lots to see and do as you wind your way around, mingling and trying your city's delicacies. The people-watching at food festivals is great, as well — and as a bonus, it makes for fun conversation.
More from YourTango: Are Married Women Happier Than Single Ladies?Oktoberfest is a great autumn date, and you no longer have to travel to Germany to experience it! Many towns and cities now offer a local version of the extravaganza. It's an all-day celebration of the best German beers, foods and entertainment; bring your appetite and an adventurous spirit.
And then, of course, there is the big dog: the traditional dinner at a posh restaurant as you sit across from one another, assessing if there is enough chemistry to get to date number two. Good wine, fancy food and sexy lighting — there's a lot to love about the classic dinner date.
As a matchmaker I encourage my clients to try all sorts of different dates, but food always seems to be everyone's go-to. I also get the inside scoop, which means detailed feedback after each of my clients' dating adventures. The ladies in my service are being wined and dined at the best restaurants in Los Angeles, which is a treat anyone would love. But here's a secret: sometimes, they get a bit carried away.
One of my clients, John, was telling me about a first date he went on with a woman; he took her to an expensive steakhouse in Beverly Hills. Things were going fine and she was a great conversationalist. At the end of the meal, she told the waiter that she would like to order one more petite filet, to take home to her cat. His jaw dropped to his chest, and he said, "Oh, no, no, no! I don't think that is a good idea!"
Her response? "But it's for my cat!"
He stated firmly, "I am not on a date with your cat!" Yikes.
Another client, Daniel, flew Christine to San Francisco for a romantic dinner in his private plane. Daniel was eager to impress her with his pilot skills and imaginative date. They were having an amazing time, but at the end of the evening, before the check arrived, Christine whipped out the wine list and ordered several bottles "to go" for herself on Daniel's dime. Needless to say, that was her last flight!
Matching Southern California women has proven to be quite an experience. They are getting more and more into the raw food and juicing culture. As such, yoga, mediation, spiritual retreats, colonics and angel card readings are all topics of high priority for many SoCal ladies. Some, needless to say, make for better dates than others.
Gary called me the other day telling me that as a litigator with his own law firm, he was quite impressed at his date's ability to thoroughly cross-examine the poor waiter on whether their vegetables were GMO (genetically modified) or not. The waiter was flummoxed and tongue-tied as she grilled him over and over to the point of embarrassment. He finally replied, "Miss, all I know is that our vegetables are fresh and no one has gotten sick."
Even a date as quirky and fun as attending a restaurant supply convention can go south. Sarah accompanied James to a convention that was held in a hotel in Miami. While he was in a meeting that was scheduled to last for a few hours, she went to the bar to wait for him. When he finished, he went looking for her and found out from the staff that she had gotten so drunk at the bar she was unable to walk. They had to wheel her out on a luggage rack. Quite a surprise!
So what can we learn from these (admittedly hilarious) tales of food and love gone wrong? For starters, approach a dining date with class, grace and confidence. Food is one of the best vehicles for connection to another person, and it should be easy, fun and no-pressure. You don't have to be a high-flyer to have a delicious date, though. Consider thinking outside the box with a creative date like a festival or walking tour of your city's best fare. Don't take yourself too seriously (juicers, we're looking at you!) And, above all, definitely do not order a steak for your cat!
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Thursday, April 25, 2013
This Might Be The Worst First Date Ever
This one really takes the cake. This date puts your dating disaster to shame.Boring conversations, awkward silence, ridiculous arguments — we've all had our share of bad first dates. But this one really takes the cake.
After sending her text messages, Nimeha Millen agreed to go out with Donald Bernard McGee Jr. on her 21st birthday. After a stroll in the park at a stop at Wendy's, McGee did the least romantic thing possible.
More from YourTango: 7 Children's Characters Arrested For Crimes Of Passion [PHOTOS]The 19-year-old allegedly whipped out a gun and stole her car. Talk about the worst date and birthday ever.
Do you have a first date that's worse? Tell us in the comments below.
Read more about the first date from hell at Huffington Post Weird News: Donald Bernard McGee Jr. Accused Of Carjacking Nimeha Milien's Car On First Date
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Monday, April 15, 2013
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