Is she interested in me?

I am now in the college dorms and have had my door open to invite people in for the past few days. Today, some of my hallmates had a few friends over, including this one girl. After she passed by my room, I overheard her talking to her friends since we both had our doors open. I couldn't hear the whole conversation, but I could hear her saying things like "no, I'm not going to talk to him first" and other stuff like that. Her friends were trying to convince her to talk to some guy, and I assumed it was the guy across the hall. Anyways, after like 10 minutes of their discussion, she came into my room (to my surprise) and asked for me to proofread an essay for psychology. Anyways, I was able to help and we talked for a few minutes afterwards. I didn't really get to know her too much since I think we were both a little out of our comfort zones but she was pretty attractive and I would like to get to know her better. Anyways, we said our goodbyes and she went back to her friend's room. She came back to mine after a few minutes and introduced herself since we hadn't formally introduced ourselves. She then proceeded to ask for my number and said she wanted to text me later. Oh yeah, and during our initial encounter, her friends kept coming into my room and did stuff to try and embarrass her. So at this point, I'm not sure if she is attracted to me and told her friends, or if this was just how they all act normally. It has been close to 12 hours since she said she'll text me so I am now waiting for the next few days to see if she will really text me (if she is interested, I'd assume she will wait a while to not seem obsessed) or if she just wanted my number to help with psych or if she just wanted to add another number to her phone book. I thought this was strange how she left and then came back asking for my number and especially how she said she'll text me later. Because in my experience, when girls just want my number to study or something school related, then they don't say they'll "text me later". I don't want to get my hopes up too much in the next few days in case she doesn't text me, but I want to see what everyone's opinions here are. Also, I don't remember her name.... any ideas on what to do if she texts me back to get her name while being inconspicuous?

Hello theend,

Well, I have heard and experienced such situations many many times . She definitely wants to get to know you more and take a step closer towards your newborn relationship. No matter why she took your number, she will contact you sooner or later. Not remembering her name can mean a lot to her since it can consider you careless but I have a work around for that. Many times I got messages from girls during college days and I'm not really a name-remembering type of a person, I mix names up a lot like for example I know 2 girls one called Sara the other called Menna, I can easily call each one of them with the other's name

Anyway, whenever she texts you, try to keep your words centred and focused only on the conversation. You don't need to start your message by Hi *Name*, Just say Hi how are you doing and keep going on. Also, you might want to try truecaller and look up her name, it worked for me in some emergency cases ^_^

Warmest regards

Control Anger before it controls you.

I would think that this was all normal, if it wasn't for her friends trying to embarrass her and acting silly. I definitely think she's into you based on that. Oh and most females think that they're supposed to wait a few days to text or call because they don't want to seem too eager! Women think that they're supposed to play hard to get to get a man's attention, because let's face it, most men like the chase.

While no one can give you a 100% answer either way, I'd say once she gets ahold of you, if she's still playing it cool then you should let her know you're interested. Or you could maybe flirt with her a little and gauge her reaction! Even if you aren't the guy she was talking about to her friends, if you show a little interest, maybe she'll take the bait and give you a chance to get to know her.

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