hello everybody,a little about us, we havent been together for too long,only 4months. we have a long distance relationship.everything has been ok so far but one week i couldnt reach him for bout 3 days and he said someone in his family died and i couldnt be mad because i didnt know whether it was true or not so i gave him another chance.
now recently, last weekend he was supposed to come over, but he didnt show up. tried calling and calling and calling for the whole weekend nobody answered. i was kind of pissed, thinking that hes been playing with me all along and that i was just too stupid to see it.so i sent him a few fd up messages. then i hear from his friend on that sunday telling me he is in the hospital, he hurt his back. (didnt believe it) he called the next day and told me what supposedly happened. i didnt really listen but anyways, is there any chance that this may be true? i think that if u really want to, u will find a way to let that person know what happened. obviously i was waiting the whole weekend for some kind of call or a sign that he is ok. he thinks that i overreacted and that im wrong for sending him these f'd up messages. what do yall think?
You either trust him or you don't, which I believe he's done something that you doubt about what he's done and said. I think the best option would be talk to him about this situation face-to-face, and be firm about what you feel about it because if you don't say it, then he will continue and will also take advantage of that. Find a time and sit down and talk to him, ask what you feel about it to see how he reacts to that. Then go from then, but if your feeling still bothers you, then I think you're right about the trusting issue.
Not sure if you would agree with me, but girls do have this very strong distinct feeling when something is not right with our guy. While you should give him the benefit of the doubt I suggest you also take note of your doubts. Be on guard but not to the point that you ruin everything before you even find out the truth.You may not create new Love Advice Forum threadsYou may not post repliesYou may not post attachmentsYou may not edit your postsForum Rules
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