Okay so I text her this afternoon about something we were talking about the other day,just to get a conversation started so I could ask her out,it's been about 10 hours and she hasn't replied and it doesn't look like she's going to :/Big mistake. I'll tell you why.

Women are constantly looking for a way out. Even if they like you. They want a man who holds himself in high value.

Do you know the types of men who hold themselves in high value?
The men who employ the principle of least effort. That is working smarter, not harder. If they sense that you lack the confidence to man up and ask them out, you will lose value.

For example. Imagine you texted one of your buddies. But instead of getting right to point as you usually do, you send him a "Hey! How was your day?" Do you know what's going to run through your buddies mind?
He wants something from me.

And guess what, if you send her a similar message she is going to think the EXACT same thing. He wants something from me. I don't know what he wants. I'm not going to give him it, because I don't know what it is. Obviously she has already thought it, because you don't have a response...and for good reason. She knows that your text is merely a means to an end. Why should she acknowledge a guy who isn't confident enough to make his intentions clear? Every second you think about how to portray yourself as the perfect guy, are seconds by which her attraction for you is fading.

Rule to follow from now on. NEVER. EVER. Use a phone as a means of building rapport with a girl. Despite what you've done in the past, or what success you have had with it, you need to stop doing it. If she is attracted to you, you are killing that attraction with every text message wondering about her day. Trust me.

Imagine instead of staring into a phone screen getting nowhere, you're staring into her beautiful eyes. Not only that, but you're making love to her. You can feel the goose bumps on her on her spine, taste a trickle of that sweet feminine sweat, and smell her intoxicating hair while you passionately do what humans were put here to do.

Stop telling yourself that this girl is different. Because she is not. By all means, she might be the one you really want. And by all means have it that way. But the moment you start putting her on a pedestal is the moment she has won. You have demonstrated that you are not worthy of her, or her time.

If you haven't sent her repeated texts about useless information, then you still have a chance. Wait until tomorrow to fix your foul up. Text her a time and place to meet. Do NOT let her make decisions! Any decision she tries to make is testing your confidence as a man. If you allow her to reschedule a date, and agree to it. Guess who just became the girlfriend in the relationship? Make sure to offer her at least two first date opportunities. Never consecutive days/nights unless absolutely necessary. If she cannot make any of your dates, that's your signal to withdraw. Politely accept her refusal and remind her you're sticking to your initially planned date, that were made by YOU. If you do this you have just effectively told her that you are A: A Leader & B:Showing her that if she wants to play games, she is dispensable. If those dates are truly unavailable to her. She will see you as a man of high value and seek an alternative at another time. If you think rejection sucks a a guy, since we have to do all the work....Imagine your worst rejection x25. That's how it feels for women. A man who gets rejected by a woman is often times seen as brave. He's the hunter. A woman who gets rejected is absolutely the worst. Do you care about being with a buddy who struck out hitting on a girl? Probably not. But there is no way in hell that other women take the chance of associating with a woman who got turned down by a man. The zebra has defeated the lioness. Of what appeal or value does that lioness now hold to the pack or pride if it can not handle a zebra? Women have much more to lose. I'm asking you to trust me on this. I know you care about her. If you want anything to happen with her, at all. You have to do this. If this happens guess what, you either passed her bullsh** test. Or she is genuinely uninterested and you've avoided a major waste of your time.

If she is interested, and she refuses your initial date proposal. She will come to you. She is going to start and wonder. Why you haven't given in? Are you with another girl? Even beautiful confident girls will break down. If you are strong, avoid ignoring her, and remain respectful. While showing disinterest after she has refused your date you are telling this girl you don't take orders from anyone. And guess what. The 20 guys who won't stop texting and constantly calling her, are the ones who are killing the attraction that she feels for them. All the meanwhile she is thinking about you, and why you aren't like the other guys.