Hi all! I have a really touchy situation on my hands that I need resolved by the end of Christmas break. A couple nights ago my brother drunk texted my crush(let's call him Bob) telling him that I like him and he basically asked him out for me. I didn't find out about this until a few days later when my brother confessed it to me. I was really embarrassed so I texted Bob an apolagy, telling him that all of that was a joke and it wasn't true. The text also kind of had a mean tone to it, because I was embarrassed. My brother told me that Bob was mad about the whole situation because he actually did like me until all of this! Anyways, Bob didn't respond to me until three days later. I need to tell Bob how I actually feel because I really like him and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm a senior in high school and I really want to pursue a relationship with him. I asked Bob to meet up with me after his response, so I can tell him, and it's been a day and no response. Where do I go from here? I really need this resolved before school because I have a class with him and it will be even more awkward.
You might think it's going to be more ackward, but actually it might be easier to explain things in person, siince it seems he's
avoiding you because your response. You should've had a mean tone to him, it wasn't his fault what your brother did. When you asked him to meet in peson, did you say you were sorry about what you said, that you didn't mean it, or were you going to wait until a face to face first?
You might think it's going to be more ackward, but actually it might be easier to explain things in person, siince it seems he's
avoiding you because your response. You should've had a mean tone to him, it wasn't his fault what your brother did. When you asked him to meet in peson, did you say you were sorry about what you said, that you didn't mean it, or were you going to wait until a face to face first?
ya after he responded i said "ya again Im really sorry i didnt mean for all that to happen." but hey, would you be willing to meet up with me so i can clear some more things up with you?" he didnt respond to that. I want to get him face to face, but i dont think hes willing to do it..
Last edited by pink77; 12-30-2013 at 04:39 PM.
Wait a few more days. If he still doesn't contact you, try to call him. Or, better, meet him after first classes together and tell him in person what happened. In situations like this it's always better to be honest.
So your crush liked you until you came out and were mean to him saying what your brother said was not true? Sounds like a common misunderstanding and if he doesn’t understand that what you said was out of embarrassment, maybe it is just best to let things be. I agree that you should try to explain the situation face to face and not through text or the phone but do not dwell on the situation. You are young and it is not the end of the world if this doesn’t bud a relationship. Crushes will come and go but if you don’t want to lose him as a friend, be honest with him.
You
may not create new Love Advice Forum threadsYou
may not post repliesYou
may not post attachmentsYou
may not edit your postsForum Rules
Beauty Store from Amazon
No comments:
Post a Comment