A bit of history: I was married eons ago and haven't dated much since (I'm hetero). I met a guy recently at a conference, and we hit it off. He ended up staying with me at my home for over a month. There were some unusual comments he made which made me think twice about his orientation. Any thoughts?

When I told him there are parts of town that are well-known areas for homosexuals, he said, "where are they?"

He doesn't want a cell phone, because he said there is technology which enables the location of the phone to be found.

All guys like breasts, right? He never once touched me there - I had to ask him to!

There was absolutely no foreplay in the 2 times over the 5 weeks we had sex. I mean Zero. And it had been 4 years since he'd been with a woman.

We happen to both love basketball. While watching a game, he asked me if I thought the players looked better in the old "shorty" uniforms...Hmm.

A close, gay friend of his for over 25 years, invited him to go to this great gay resort in California. You'd think a friend of over 25 years would have a clue as to his sexual orientation.

I'm pretty open about this, so I asked him of his former relationships. He mentioned one he had in his twenties (he's in his fifties!!) and one other one. Both women left him.

I asked him if I could visit him (he's from a different city); he clearly didn't want me to come, so I never did visit him.

He doesn't have mail delivered to his home (he's a homeowner); instead, it's delivered to some postbox address.

In putting his arm around me in a bar, he said, "it's so nice to be able to hold you in public like that."

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