Okay so this girl I've been friends with for about 4 1/2 years now just got out of her 4 year relationship. Tbh, I'm pretty sure I liked her since we first met but put those aside. I told her one before like 2 years before she broke up with the guy in the 4 year relationship but that led nowhere. Now she is 2 months out of that relationship and I'm really stuck. I said to myself that I'd see what happens, give her some space and figured she wouldn't want anything right now. I was right, but I found out some other dude already confessed to her that he likes her....and when I asked if she liked him back, she said "Is that wrong"? And she told me they kissed a couple times but eh that's not really anything. the fact that me and this girl are so close is that we consider each other family like brother and sister. Ever since my freshman year I've been silentlt waiting for her relationship to end (the guy wasn't right for her but she was hopelessly in love with him). I don't know what to do. If I say something about liking her I'm afraid things will get all awkward and weird. And I'm not a scumbag, I feel bad that she likes someone and that I'm gonna ruin the fun time shes having and steal her from someone. I even met the guy she likes..he's pretty chill and nice. But also to me, her and I went to school with each other so part of me wants to be with her and yet some of me wants to go explore and see what's out there, and not be confined to my town. Yet I know I am missing out on an opportunity Ive been waiting for a long time for. Like I can;t even catch a break...she just gets out of a relationship and I'm trying to be nice you know, see how things work out and people are already saying they like her. And I don't feel right knowing the fact that she pretty much said she likes him back too. I wanted her to like me on her own... In a school or something, you might think to yourself who would I be perfect with...she's it. other people even said tht to me. And last week i invited her over for movies and we sorta maybe kinda cuddled and all I wanted to do was kiss her.. i dont know what to do, i need help
Girls are confusing. Judging from her behavior, she sees you as a friend more than anything else. You said it yourself, "we are like family". Maybe you have been friend zoned. If you really want to know how she feels, next time when you are cuddling her, kiss her. I do not know if you are brave enough to do it. If she kisses you back, it does not absolutely mean she likes you as a boyfriend kind of way. At least, she will have sort of idea about your feelings. Have you thought about sending this thread to her? I mean your post is all about your feelings.Keep us posted.
You really care about her and you probably won't be happy if you'll have to hide it for an even longer period of time...I think you should tell her how you feel about her, it looks like she is ready for a new relationship. The longer you wait, the more difficult it will be.You may not create new Love Advice Forum threadsYou may not post repliesYou may not post attachmentsYou may not edit your postsForum Rules
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