What happened to her

little back story for you: 2.5 years ago we met at a movie and have been inseparable ever since. She was so cool just chill not high maintenance like the girls at my school . Her idea of a good time was sitting on my couch watching a movie or driving out to the boonies and looking at the stars.I wanted to give her everything she wanted, and i did. At one point we flew to Maui and Paris ( for a family vacation but still). And slowly but surely she became a little more self centered and bratty. This all climaxed when i bought her a 500 dollar piece of jewelry for no reason at all. She knows how to get me to buy her things. She'll see it, ask me to buy it, start hugging me, flash those big blue puppy dog eyes, throw in a pouty lip, and say please 1,000 times, and if that doesn't work she kisses me on the cheek until my heart melts enough and she knows i'm a sucker for that so i give in. So today she wakes up at 8 am and asks if we can go to the city ( Chicago). I like chicago, i like to just look at the people and sky scrapers, and i hope to school there. We end up in Nordstrom and within about 30 seconds she finds a necklace.
Her: You know who would really look good in that?
Me: Kate Upton? ( can't outsmart a smart aleck)
Her: No, me
* starts hugging me
* flashes eyes and lips
Her: Babe, will you buy it for me please
please please it's so pretty you know you want to
* starts kissing me
Me: but sweetie it's like $500
i just bought you stuff for Christmas ( about 1,000 dollars worth)
* puppy dog eyes*
Her: Please baby do it for me
Her: but think about how pretty i'd be in it
Me: I think you're pretty at 3am in your pajamas
Her: So are you going to buy me the thing or not
Me: I'm not
Her: You're such an ***hole
Me: And you're a spoiled brat, now i'm leaving, going to the car and driving home, you can either come with me or you can be stranded here with no money for a cab
Her: i hate you
She got all teary eyed and was crying in the car
we get back to our place and she runs into the bedroom and starts crying on the bed. She throws a pillow at me and slams the door.
Her: You're not sleeping in here until you apologize
Me: lemme know when you decide to stop being spoiled and get a job to start buying your own stuff.
Should i just buy it for her? i mean i hate seeing her upset but on the other hand i want to prove to her that i'm not a doormat. I hate conflict. I just want her to be happy but i want the old her back?

No, you shouldn't just buy it for her because then the cycle will continue and you will end up resenting her in the long run. The fact that she became so upset over being told no says to me that she expects you to give in since you have in the past. Hard as it might be I think you need to sit her down and tell her how you feel, how you liked her because she wasn't like other girls but that lately you feel used. Don't make her feel like she is at fault, just say that you want to make her happy and give her the world but you feel like she is just using you. Honesty is the best policy unless things will continue the way they are. Hope this helps and good luck!

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