Facebook response after a month?????? PLEASE SOME FEEDBACK

Hello

What does it mean when your crush replies to your private Facebook message after a month?

I send him a casual message on Facebook ( private) saying: hey how have you been?

He did not reply and I moved on and put him out of my head

About a month later I got a reply saying: Hi I hope you are well. your husband is no longer on Facebook so I want to wish you all a happy new year. your son looks great

I am so confused

1. he did not reply to my message how have you been....he totally ignores it and sends me the above
2. why did he reply after a month?

I know He has been online on Facebook before

He has my husband his private e-mail so If he wanted to send him a happy new year he did not have to Im me

Is he just trying to be polite???

Or does he maybe like me and it careful as he knows my now ex husband ( he does not know we split up)

should I reply at all? if so what should i say

I want to know for certain if he likes me or not

He is either not interested and is trying to be polite and does not want to hurt my feelings
or he is interested but is afraid of my husband and does not want any problems or scandals and is not sure if I even like him

I cant just send a fb message saying I like you out of the blue, so How do I make it clear?

thanks for the reply dr girlfriend

Very helpful

We don't live in the same town...so I would prob say something like ; we should get some coffee and catch up next time I am in town

he adores my son......should I add we as in : next time me and ( my son) are in town?

anyone think it is desperate to ask him out for coffee.....? should he not be asking me out?
if he responds how will I know he is saying ok to be polite or because he is interested

I would say maybe don't mention your son and just say he's staying with family if he asks. That way you guys can focus on each other. Also, you are just asking him to coffee to catch up. Its a friendly gesture and clearly not a date. So I don't think you should feel weird about it. Friends want to hang out with friends all the time. Just don't make it awkward, and it won't be.

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