I have recently come out of a very emotionally draining 3 year relationship and have met an amazing guy that I cant seem to progress with.
He is a friend or a friend and have never been sure of things since I met him, in that I havent felt overly sexually attracted to him. He is literally everything else that I want, he know hows I have reservations and have had to tell him I need to take a step back as the whole situation felt overwhelming. H Now im so scared that ive lost my only opportunity to have a great relationship with him. Im so confused so advice would be useful, I dont want to lead him on and we care about eachother deeply which may be part of the problem. It's all emotional and not very physical!
If you are missing the attraction element, then you probably aren't missing an opportunity to have a great relationship with him. You took a step back for a reason, trust those instincts. There is no point in just settling because he is available
I think that multiple elements make up a good relationship and sexual attraction is one of them. As you said, you've just come out of a long relationship. You probably need some more time until you'll be ready to start another one.
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