So, this girl and I have been talking for a month. We have EVERYTHING in common, we got to liking each other a whole lot. We talked on the phone 24/7 and texted each other. We say sweet things to each other, she said I was perfect for her...yada yada yada. I went out on late nights to go see her. We'd kiss, cuddle each other in the cold...sounds great right...we finally went out on a "Date" last night and we had run, she'd lay her head on my shoulders while I would drive, hold each others hand, kiss, laugh..night ended, I went outside her house, we sat on the couch and we kinda cuddled, then we went outside for her to smoke and myself to leave. She hugged and kissed me and then this is where it ends. I get a text two minutes later saying how she has a weird vibe now, you got comfortable in my house too quick (What does that mean?) and we should take a "chill" pill on this. She never gave me a specific reason why, just weird vibes and I'm kinda too much. Then the next morning I found that she blocked me on Facebook....Like I am so confused off why this is happening.. If anyone could give me advice, their opinions, it would be much appreciated, because I am at a loss of words right now.. I've tried texting her, I get ignored. Last night when I met her mom, she really liked me. I just don't know what to think, like why all of this all of a sudden? She said every day and night how pretty I am, how awesome, how we are right for each other. Please, somebody, give me some help.We're both 24, I'm scared I'll lose contact with her since she shut me out. Any advice from both men and women is much appreciated!
That is really harsh to hear, sorry to hear that. I can relate because a long while ago I had a similar experience. A girl seemed to like me, we spoke daily, went out on very good date, kissed and cuddled etc. I took her home and within half hour I got that dreaded text of "something's not feeling right " kind of thing. I later found out she did like me but nothing more than in a friendly way. She wanted to like me more but didn't. Maybe your girl was doing the same? Hoping there was more but there isn't? The girl admitted that to me later on so I could respect that and move on. It sucks that she didn't tell you and blocked you and ignored you, that just seems evil to me! I don't know what more you can do? Do you have contact with her friends? Maybe try asking them for a reason?
She acts really weird and impolite, but maybe it's because things are happening too fast for her. She noticed how much in love you are with her and she got scared. Maybe she just doesn't feel ready for such a serious relationship...I think you should let her now that you don't insist on anything and you are ready to wait for her - and then give her space, don't contact her for a while.
Hmm...Seems like there is something she is not telling you. We can only speculate as to what she is not telling you. Maybe after the date, she realized, she saw you more of a friend than anything else. Maybe she did not feel any chemistry during the date. What did she mean by "you got comfortable in my house too quick"? Did the both of you do something intimate? If so, maybe she got worried after what the two of you did. I can only guess. I think she only said how "right" the two of you feel because she wanted to make herself feel like its "right". Feel better!You may not create new Love Advice Forum threadsYou may not post repliesYou may not post attachmentsYou may not edit your postsForum Rules
