Ok so a month ago I met a guy on Tinder. He is a Scorpio I am a Pisces. We chatted over the phone and texted for about a week before we went on our first date to meet in person. Let me just say it was an instant connection and we could both felt eachothers energy it was very intense. Our date went well he got a very good impression of me and I of him. I was upfront with him and told him I was still a virgin at 21 and him at 25 was very experienced. He told me that sex was important to him right from the start. I understand that some people use sex to express their emotions (especially scorios) but I let him know that I dont want to do anything serious so early on..not until we were official and established anyways.. He seemed to respect that and even said I was mature beyond my years which I have to agree with. The second date he invited me to his house which at first I wondered if this was the right thing to do on a second date but he made me feel safe so I trusted him and went through with it. Not gonna lie and I new it was bound to happen because there was so much energy between us, we both started making out went to second base. I told him I could not go any further than this as it was just the second date. He said that was ok and he was very understanding.

So now two weeks have past from that last date and I can tell he was starting to lose interest because the texts were shorter and less frequent. He also was very busy with work and and on a one week vaca to see family all around the same time. Because I am a pisces I am naturally impatient and Not gonna lie I like attentiin and want to feel wanted by a guy, doesnt mean I'm desperate or needy, just makes me feel special. I wasnt getting that from him so I was very upfront and told him if him wasnt interested to let me know and that I understand. He calls me at 11:30 pm to tell me he was sorry and that he still likes me. Ok great good to know. I was hapy to hear this. I thought I should guve him some time. I gave him 4 days and in those 4 days he would literally ask the same thing, how was your day? And hows your night going? Then reply minimally.

I finally gave him my last ultimatum which I know is bot fun to recieve by anyone but I needed to avoid waiting being hurt and waiting on somone who wasnt as into me as I was with them. He respond with tge ling reply saying he wasnt interested and said there were so many qualities he lived about me but he was impatient for sex. I asked him if he was interested at all in me and said yes in the beginning.

3 weeks have past and I met someone else who is really sweet but lacks in the affection department which is something I require. But I cant stop thinking about this other guy. I know I havent spent that much time with him but I thought he was amazing and loved how I felt with him. I keep thinking about texting him but not sure if thats smart because I dont want to look stupid. Any advice?