So last week I went out with a guy I really clicked with. It was so good, during our first date he was coming up with ideas for our second one. I'm going to be studying in the south, and I had to go back up to Paris the day after, and then when to Italy for a few days, so it was impossible to see him again. He was such a catch! My age, studying nursing, very smart and very cultivated. Very mature too and handsome.

The day before I returned to France I messaged him telling him I was coming back,and would love to see him again, if he wanted to see me. It was kind of romantically suggestive and He didn't take long to respond to me. He told me how pleased he was to see my message, but the day I got back he was going to Spain. I told him I may come a little earlier, to start moving into my apartment and he told me if I do, to let him know and we can work something out.

I texted him when I arrived back in Paris, telling him I'll be coming down two days earlier, but he didn't respond. I decided to call again, before I got on the train to ask again, and he seemed happy that I called, he was apologetic for not responding, he said he was going to call me later that day but he is helping a friend move, so it really depended on the time I arrived.. That's understandable I think. I arrived quite a bit later than expected, and he wasn't able to make it for dinner plans, so it was kind of a waste in a way.

I feel like maybe he is avoiding me and the only thing I can think of is me coming on too strong. I know he's really busy, and in another country at the moment, but his responses to me became shorter and shorter and less emotive. He didn't seem to be overly emotive in person, and I don't know him well enough to say anything, but I really felt like there could be something with this guy, and I have this fear in my mind that I ruined it.. But maybe I'm over thinking it too.

I told a friend about it and he advised me to see other people for the time being, till he's back, and every night since then I've been out with someone new. A few sexual encounters, but nothing felt good like with this guy.

I haven't spoken to him in days so he can enjoy his holiday, and i don't seem needy or that I'm clingy, but do you guys reckon I should call or text when he's back?
I told him on the phone the reason I'm persistent is that when he gets back, I'm going to the French Riviera, so I won't see him for at least another with when he's back, so he understands that..

But yeah what do you think? Should I make one more attempt to make plans, or just let it go and move on?
Thanks for the advise.

P.S we even took a selfie together, and when he messaged me asking for it, he told me he loved it.. Though we both looked horrible in it