Girl has a boyfriend, but is falling in love with me

So this one girl i work with is falling in love with me...shes told me this and has strong feelings for me......she has a bf of 4 years and is unsure if she wants to be with him,...only thing is shes told me she makes the worst relationship decisions and doestnt want to regret leaving him and being with me.....she calls texts me all the time even when we are not at work...shes came over quite a bit and calls me babe and so on....what do i do? she works part time and is from ny with her bf and i almost feel like he might be the one paying her stuff until shes done with school in april....i dont know what to do

Stay away until she actually leaves her boyfriend. You have NO idea what is truly going on in their relationship because you only hear one side. Do not get involved in this situation. 4 years is a long time to be invested in someone and that needs to run its course before you even entertain the idea of being with her. What she is doing is emotionally cheating, and that is not cool. She shouldn't be coming over to your house, calling you Babe or texting you all the time. She's having her cake and eating it too. How would you feel if she was your girlfriend and she was doing those things with another guy? If you are correct that she is being financially supported by this guy while shes in school and that's why she stays- well.... do you really want a girl like that? Think about it

I would try to know her a bit more before moving forward (for example, is her bf really paying for her financially?? would that mean a lot to that guy?), just to protect myself

Stay away until she actually leaves her boyfriend. You have NO idea what is truly going on in their relationship because you only hear one side. Do not get involved in this situation. 4 years is a long time to be invested in someone and that needs to run its course before you even entertain the idea of being with her. What she is doing is emotionally cheating, and that is not cool. She shouldn't be coming over to your house, calling you Babe or texting you all the time. She's having her cake and eating it too. How would you feel if she was your girlfriend and she was doing those things with another guy? If you are correct that she is being financially supported by this guy while shes in school and that's why she stays- well.... do you really want a girl like that? Think about iti actually said that to her eating her cake part. i guess he has no clue

I would try to know her a bit more before moving forward (for example, is her bf really paying for her financially?? would that mean a lot to that guy?), just to protect myselfwhat do you mean alot?

Never give your heart to someone who can leave one relationship and jump in to the next so quickly. It will not be hard for her to do the same to you. How can you ever trust that someone like this will be loyal or faithful to you. She could be looking for an escape and not love you deserve better.

Well if you are better looking than her bf then that's one reason why she likes you over him. If he's paying for her bills, then I guess you should be aware and cautious that she's a gold-digger, and if you can't support her then she will look for a new sugar daddy.

I do not think that such kind of girl or a person should be really trusted. Although she was being honest by telling you about her feelings and relationships, that could not hide the fact that she is cheating by flirting with you. Better to really know her personality cause she might just a player or she is really confused.

Get to know her better first. She might be a girl who easily changes her feelings all the time.

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