Dating your best friend?

Okay, so, I've been friends with my best friend for about 8 years. Shortly after we became friends, he became romantically interested in me and I turned him down. I knew that he still had feelings for me, but it was something that we never really talked about again, because I knew that I didn't like him. Recently, I realized that I may have feelings for him, but am really confused about whether it's true or not. I got incredibly jealous over the fact that some girl was hitting on him at my birthday party and began to cry when he left to give her a ride home. Someone asked why I had been crying and when I said I didn't know, they asked if it was possible that I had feelings for my friend. He came back and gave me a hug after someone had told him that I'd been crying and we started talking. He said that he still had feelings for me and I told him that I did too. Now I'm not sure if I said that in the heat of the moment or if I truly meant it. I've been so confused and I want to give him a chance, but I'm really scared that it'd ruin our friendship. I think about how much he means to me and how he knows me better than anyone else: how he pays attention to little details in our conversations and how he never really forgets them, and how he can read my mind, how he can instantly cheer me up or make me laugh. My entire family loves him, extended family included, and he loves them too. It's kind of scary to think about forever changing a relationship you have with someone, but a part of me thinks it might be worth it. I'm so confused and don't know what to do!

I f you feel a strong deep affection for him I think it is worth a try, at least if it is not love you would know you tried, if you let it go, you will always wonder what would have happened if you took a chance with him.

I think the boy is good and you should go ahead with it your family also like him which is also good for your relationship.
I don't know what is troubling you he is your best friend he care for you so much love u so much and what else you want.
Are you having any other expectations from him which you knew he can't fulfill so i would just say no one get the perfect match we have to adjust somewhere.

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