Well i have looked from a far at this guy in my gym class, i know he recently dated someone from the gym but she messed him around and it ended up she was married (nice girl!!!) so it never really started between them. Anyway xmas eve comes around and i was ment to be going out with my one of my friends but she was too sick so i posted out on facebook is anyone out tonight?? He then replied come and join me and my friends - so i did . . . . .

Met him in a bar and we had a few drinks, he was lovely towards me making sure i was ok cause i didnt know anyone else, making sure my glass was full! THEN I NOTICED he was texting the women who he had sort of seen (with the husband) as the night progressed he was becoming less closed with his phone and he was literally sitting next to me by this point when i saw him blatently (he was drunk by this stage) text her saying he could have loved her and he had liked her. Which put me in a weird position (he'd already snogged me by this point)

I am unsure whether to persist with him as my ego did feel slightly shattered after that message - he was texting her quite a few times whilst we were out.

Since that evening i have been texting him and was texting him for the entire xmas day - he did say we would go out for a drink

I have liked him for a while now but this was a blow i wasnt expecting - ANY ADVICE????