is he playing a game or does he really like me?

There's a guy from a studentclub that I've met about 3 months ago. He constantly flirts with every girl at the bar (usually 15 girls in 1 night or so), but he never flirts with me; he just tries to piss me off. In the beginning he even tried to set me up with another guy from the club, but later he took the keys to my bike, so I couldn't cycle home anymore and had to sleep at his place (at 8:30 am I didn't care anymore). I knew for sure that he wouldn't make a move and was fairly sure he just saw me as a friend, so I didn't mind. When we woke up, he had to go to his parents house and invited me to come along, ofcourse I didn't since we were just friends.
A couple weeks later I got a bit too drunk and he brought me back to his place, while he went back to the bar again. Later when he got back, I had to go home, but he kept asking me if I didn't want to stay for a couple more hours, but he was drunk so I didn't think much of it.
A week later he sent me a fb message (never did that before) to ask if I'd also go to the last party of the year with the studentclub. Ofcourse I did, but I told him that a friend of mine couldn't come to which he responded: as long as you're there then I'm happy. I wasn't sure if he was just trying to freak me out or if he was serious. Later that night he was again flirting with every girl in the bar, including 2 friends of mine that I had brought with me. I had warned them about him since he is a player (with every girl, except for me). Later I talked with him about the flirting and he told me that he was actually looking for a serious relationship. He then said: "I'm only extra nice to a girl when I really like her. That's also why I gave you the extra blanket and asked you if you wanted to borrow a pj last week". Btw that was after his 4th or 5th bottle of champagne so I doubt he remembers it and that's why I haven't talked with him about it.

I'm wondering if he really likes me or if he is just playing a game. My friends at the club keep warning me that I should stay away from him and I'm sure there's a reason for it (he is a player). He also knows that he's one of the very few guys that I still trust (got a ty time behind me and the guys from the club all know what happened and helped me a lot), so if it'd just be a game to him then he'd be the biggest in the world.
Not sure if it matters, but he's 25 and I'm 20

Hey there,
There are 2 ways, you can see it. 1 he is a player and you will end up getting hurt.
Or 2. he just haven't found the right one. The best way to play it is to not let it go physical, and try to talk when both of you are sober. Take it very slow.

I'd say he isnt that into you. if a guy is really into you he doesnt want to share. they may want other girls but they dont want you with other guys so he wouldnt have tried to set you up with his other friend

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