Today, my girlfriend drove me and her younger sister (7 year old) to Walmart. I bought her sister a toy. She wanted me to buy her a Jewelry Box. She had a Jewelry Box look just like that, but it had been stolen. She wanted me to buy it for her. Because I thought it would remind her about her ex, I said I would not buy it. She got mad at me. I paid for her sister's toy, and she paid for her Jewelry Box. After check out, she told me that she would not drive me home. Therefore, I went back into Walmart, and walked to home from another door at store. It rained outside. She called me, but I did not pick up my phone. When I got home, I opened my message. My friend said my girlfriend had an accident. I called my girlfriend back. She told that she go around to find me, so that why she got accident. She and her sis were fine, but the car was not. By the way, she was the person fault for the accident.
I drove back, but someone else already drove her home. I just saw her car have been push. Now, she wants to break up with me. What should I do now? I feel so regret.
In my opinion you did nothing wrong, she doesn't have any right to force you to buy her gifts. The accident also wasn't your fault, it was just a misadventure. I think you should meet and try to talk. Don't argue, just talk as calmly as possible. Be honest with her, tell her how you feel about this.
I agree with the above post by Claudine, to a certain extent. I would not meet with her if I were you. The reason is that she has clearly shown what type of person she is. Think about it, the way she did you, not giving you a ride home because you would not buy her something? That's ridiculous! Put the shoe on the other foot, what if you did her that way, do you think she would like it?Apparently she is very manipulative and is setting you up to try to get her way. If you get back involved with this particular woman, she will definitely demand that you buy her something, or do something to appease her, in the future, and if you don't do it, you'll be right back at square one.
"When people show you who they are, believe them, the first time. Not the 29th time! That is particularly good when it comes to men (and women) situations because when he doesn’t call back the first time, when you are mistreated the first time, when you see someone who shows you a lack of integrity or dishonesty the first time, know that it will be followed by many, many, many other times that will at some point in life come back to haunt or hurt you."
~ Oprah Winfrey
Last edited by taskeinc; Yesterday at 07:33 PM.
How would everything be your fault? The accident was caused by her actions, not yours. And besides, why would you be forced to buy her something when you don't want to in the first place. Her sister is a kid and I can understand you giving her something. But your girlfriend should not be acting like a kid. Even my husband refuses to buy me something I want when I ask him, and yet I never get mad at him if he does that (well I do if it's food..lol). The question I would ask you is, do you want a girlfriend who acts like a kid???
Today, my girlfriend drove me and her younger sister (7 year old) to Walmart. I bought her sister a toy. She wanted me to buy her a Jewelry Box. She had a Jewelry Box look just like that, but it had been stolen. She wanted me to buy it for her. Because I thought it would remind her about her ex, I said I would not buy it. She got mad at me. I paid for her sister's toy, and she paid for her Jewelry Box. After check out, she told me that she would not drive me home. Therefore, I went back into Walmart, and walked to home from another door at store. It rained outside. She called me, but I did not pick up my phone. When I got home, I opened my message. My friend said my girlfriend had an accident. I called my girlfriend back. She told that she go around to find me, so that why she got accident. She and her sis were fine, but the car was not. By the way, she was the person fault for the accident.You may not create new Love Advice Forum threadsYou may not post repliesYou may not post attachmentsYou may not edit your postsForum Rules
I drove back, but someone else already drove her home. I just saw her car have been push. Now, she wants to break up with me. What should I do now? I feel so regret.She is being high maintenance. You did nothing wrong. To deal with these people, when they have their little freakouts (in this case her getting in a crash, blaming you and dumping you) you act as if you are not phased. Remember she WANTS you to give her attention, to plead, to "lets talk this out", don't do any of that. Remain calm and it will cause her to question herself. Being apathetic breaks high maintenance people.
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