Hi, I'm trying to get my ex girlfriend back and here's the story.So me and her went out for 4 months until I said something stupid and broke up with her. But later I realized my mistake and asked to be with her again. I guess after that broke up, she felt really hurt and cannot be in a relationship with me anymore. But after giving her hugs and kisses, we got back together and things were going pretty well again. Until I had to move back to my own country and we stopped talking for a while.
I know in the meantime she has gotten another boyfriend but recently broke up with him. Now that I'm back to where she is, I really want to get back with her. Recently, I asked her out a few times and the interaction we well. But I'm sure she only looks at me as a friend right now. I'm wondering if there's anything I can do to get her attracted again? Please give me some advice.
Most females are incredibly affectionate, and it's hard for them to let go of someone they used to care about, so chances are that her feelings are still there. However, you have to treat it like it's an all-new relationship. Woo her as if you two have never dated before. You know when you first start falling for someone, and your entire world revolves around them? You want to do everything for them, and help them in every way possible. You'll open doors for them, carry their bags, all of that types of stuff - start that back up again, if you aren't already doing it. Most ladies love and appreciate a gentleman, and it shows that you're willing to support and help her. Take things slow - if you try to move too fast, she's likely to retreat and you'll have lost your chance. She'll probably be hesitant since the two of you have broken up before.One more thing. Sometimes, an ex is lost forever. If she doesn't respond to your advances, just let her go and move on. It may hurt, but not all relationships can be re-kindled.
I'm not sure what you can do if her feelings towards you have changed. It's hard to turn back if she sees you as a friend. Her lack of romantic interest might also due to her having other men. Is she still in contact with her ex-boyfriend or any other men?
She moved on. You can't expect a girl will wait for you if you leave her...But she cared about you once so I think there is a chance she'll like you again - just make sure you won't hurt her this time. You should be close, show her you are there for her and you won't leave again.
She told me that she doesn't talk to her ex boyfriend anymore. At least they haven't talk for a long time already. But she does talk to other guys and she told me she views them as friends too. I don't want to scare her away, so I wanna know how frequent should I text her, ask her out.. etc?
Every time you get close to your girlfriend, you up and leave. That would put anyone in a cautious position. I understand how she wants to be just friends. She doesn't want to have her dreams broken again. Unless you can promise her you are there to stay, it may be wise to keep it as just friends.
You shouldn't rush it. She took you back once, after you broke up with her. You moved away, she met and started dating another guy, whom she's no longer dating. You've moved back, she's not seeing the guy anyone, so basically you're back in the picture, just do not try to force her hand. Just be a friend, enjoy the time the two of you spend together. You can do subtle things that she likes, for example, if she likes a certain type of cologne, wear it when the two of you are together (but don't say anything about it); or, if she likes to see you dressed a certain way, wear the clothes she likes seeing you in.. just subtle things like that. Get her a card, as friends, just to say I appreciate your friendship. Little things like that will go a long way.
Thanks guys for all the responds. I'll take things little by little and most importantly I'll focus on school and my own life.
Hi, I'm trying to get my ex girlfriend back and here's the story.So me and her went out for 4 months until I said something stupid and broke up with her. But later I realized my mistake and asked to be with her again. I guess after that broke up, she felt really hurt and cannot be in a relationship with me anymore. But after giving her hugs and kisses, we got back together and things were going pretty well again. Until I had to move back to my own country and we stopped talking for a while.
I know in the meantime she has gotten another boyfriend but recently broke up with him. Now that I'm back to where she is, I really want to get back with her. Recently, I asked her out a few times and the interaction we well. But I'm sure she only looks at me as a friend right now. I'm wondering if there's anything I can do to get her attracted again? Please give me some advice.
The only advice i could give is just talk to her and let her know you still want to be with her and how you feel don't pressure her or anything cause than she will just pull away and if she isn't ready to get back in realtionship yet than just respect her choice and still be there for her.
How frequent do you think I should text her, ask her out? Also i know I should talk to her in person about telling her that I still have feelings for her.. etc but how should i bring it up? I'm not too experience into dating as she is my second girlfriend.You may not create new Love Advice Forum threadsYou may not post repliesYou may not post attachmentsYou may not edit your postsForum Rules
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