What can we talk about at school?

Okay so there's this girl in my class and me and her are like really gooooooood friends, but I've started to like her more than a friend and I'm pretty sure she does to. But I don't know for sure, how can I tell. I told her I liked her a lot one time (which was like 5 months ago) and she just kinda was like "Ohhh, ha that's good". Now when we have classes together and like at lunch we've pretty much talked about everything and know everything about eachother and it gets a little awkward cause we really like eachother but have nothing to talk about, what can we talk about? Any Ideas? Like at lunch, and we always sit by eachother in all 8 of our classes cause we made the same schedule so we could be with eachother all day, and it gets awkward for both of us just to sit there and not say much in class to eachother, what's something I could do to make her laugh/get a conversation going, she laugh at pretty much anything I do/say

Maybe you spend so much time together that you have run out of anything to talk about. You could try having a bit of space from each other for a while? Not cutting off completely cause obviously you can't change your classes but maybe sit with someone different at lunch, so then when you do see her you will have lots to talk about. You could also try keeping notes of the things you want to talk about with her as you think of them, so that when you do see her you will have plenty of ideas to keep the conversation going so there won't be any awkward moments

Thanks, I think your right and I should, should I cut off weekends as well or..? We usually end up hanging with eachother the whole weekend.

You can ask her to go out, go to mall or picnic together while studying. Maybe you should change the atmosphere sometimes.

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I met my boyfriend at the university and we had classes together. I think it's wonderful! You can talk to her about absolutely everything - but it's the best to share with her things that are interesting to both of you. Tell her about what you've read, about interesting movies, about news - there is so much going on in the world, I'm sure you'll find something interesting.

Yeah your problem is too much time together. Based on your diction I am assuming you're in some kind of grade school - not college yet. Relax, you're young and it's normal to want to spend every minute of the day with someone you like but eventually you will run out of things to speak of and it will go from awkward to boring to old and then it'll be over. This is absolutely natural. Once you get older you will earn to value the importance of having time to yourself and what distance truly means in a relationship. It is possible that you have already outlived the comfortable stage of your "friendship" and should move on to the "relationship" aspect of it. Ask her out. Let her know you are serious. You've been beating around the bush with it for 5 months now, shit or get off the pot. If it doesn't go through you will most probably soon find yourself barely speaking to each other at all as it will be even more awkward that it didn't work out - also 100% natural. If she does go for it and you end up dating then congratulations and remember to start distancing yourself in a healthy way. Try switching your schedule around. Instead of spending both Saturday and Sunday with her just spend one day in the weekend with her and spend your other day with yourself or your friends.

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Not talking in class is probably a good thing seeing as you are in class to learn and not talk to your potential girlfriend. I think you should take the relationship out of the school environment. A new environment will change it up and give you something else to talk about. Invite her out.

Thanks everyone, I'll try seperation for a little bit, but we have plans together already for the next 2 weekends and I cant just bail

Thanks everyone, I'll try seperation for a little bit, but we have plans together already for the next 2 weekends and I cant just bailYou don't have to get out of the plans you already made but it would be a pretty good idea to cut down the time you spend together after going through with your plans. That way you will have something to talk about in the time you spend apart from each other.

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