hello all.

firstly, if you actually take time to read this then i appreciate that alot.

A pretty standard and classic question coming up, is this girl into me?

I have known this girl for over a year now, infact i work with her. weve always got on as friends and had a laugh but before May have only seen each other outside of work once.

I went to a another work colleague's a louse party in May where this said girl was too, we had a chat, a laugh and a drink, anyway long story short. we made out. Me, having liked this girl since the day i met her was glad about this so for a few weeks later i asked her out several times which she made it quite clear she didnt want to as she didnt want a bf and that she felt sad becasue she knew how much i liked her, yet she would always pop up on facebook for a chat. ive always had time for her so i think she noticed that.

Anyway, 3 weeks ago i basically got a text saying she realises how much of a nice guy i am and that shes sorry for not realizing this sooner. we arranged a date for 2 days later, i took her for a meal, we had a walk afterwords and had a few kisses. We then arranged to meet up a few days later, a similar date, then once again we met the weekend after where we stayed in, i surprised her with flowers which she loved, one thing led to another and we slept together.

Through out all this ive always thought the feelings were mutual,shes always told me how much i make her happy. i made it quite clear how into her i was and that i thought about her all the time. a few days after we slept together i went to hers for a coffee, met her dad (a big step i think).

Now for the funny part, during our coffee she asked me whether i wanted to stay at hers the saturday after and that she would cook some dinner, i obviously agreed and was over the moon. The night before she confirmed that saturday was still on. Saturday came and we had a general chat through text about the usual stuff, i then sent her a message at 5 asking what time she wants me to come round. i heard nothing for 3 hours, infact i got a message about something off the topic so i asked her if she got my message, she said no. i asked her what the plan was as it was saturday and i want to know whats happening, all i got was "its up to you im not doing anything special " i then told her that sometimes i feel she wants to say no and thats its perfectly fine if she does want to say no. All i got then was once again "its up to you" i then got a text saying are you coming round or not? which i didnt reply to till after it was too late to go round, mainly due to me not wanting her to think all im doing is waiting around for her.i told her i rearranged something with some friends which i did.

at this point im thinking she doesnt actually want to meet up but cant bring her self to say no. which she did admit to the morning after when she text me first, things were forgotten about and we started texting again.

i dont want to be the only one whos making the effort into all this as it is me that always asks about meeting up. so i try and not push things too much which is very difficult as some of you will know, i sent her a message last night asking about meeting up as i want to talk to her about something, she replied with "what about?" i then told her it was about me and her dating each other, which she didnt reply to and always seems to avoid the main question im asking. Today is the first time ive not received a text off her, all i want to do is see her and ask her whats happening as i cant think about anything else at the moment.

what should i do? Is she interested or playing hard to get? or does she just like the attention im giving her.