jp girl waste my time -thought i was dating

Got a 2nd date yesterday. We walked around dwtn and had ice cream and then nIghtmarket.first date i didnt touch her we just talk at coffee shop. 2nd date.
we went to night market and taiwan fest. during the nightmarket i would touch on her and she reject it and later 10 min later touch arm on shoulder arm on waist and she reject it.
i paid for her ice cream and some food.=10dollar.
she tell me she got a bf. I ask her why she meets me and she says as friends. She shows me pic of her and her bf.she met bf in japan but he lives in usa now.
what a waste of time today.
She just meet me as a friend. i went direct approach her at library. . why she think we meet up as friends
She is a Japanese foreigner 4 weeks in Vancouver
I ask her why u don't like me and she said yes but as friend. I need a friend I dont need bf. i was looking at her as a potential gf . i was so excited the first few days since she text me back and we chatted. i really thought she liked me as a lover.

why didnt she tell me in the beginning that we are just meeting as friends and she got bf.
how can i improve so next time i dont meet a girl and she think of us as just friends but we are dating and potential gf/bf.
one way is by touching -arm around waist. hold hands but ppl say its too fast on 2nd date and all. so how
Last edited by acslater; Yesterday at 12:01 PM.

This is just the way it goes sometimes... you aren't going to be successful every time. It's a numbers game. It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong... find the next one

One thing I just did not buy from any girl when I was single was that you should have a platonic relationship for a long time before you start officially dating and before you get within less than two feet of each other.

Now I am not saying that you should jump into bed on the first date, but two people should know before the second date if they have a chance at connecting as more than friends.

Sorry, but I think your attitude stinks. You're here telling us how much you spent on her, as if you feel you failed to get a return on your investment. She's just not that into you, and she tried to let you down lightly. There's nothing wrong with being friends first, but I'm surprised she still wants to be with you in any capacity, if you see a pleasant evening out as a 'waste of time.' You need to get a better attitude, or you will never get a girlfriend - or at least, not a girlfriend worth having.

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