How Does She Feel About Me?

So I asked a girl out and she said: "i mean your one of the best things that have happened to me, but as for now, in this time sequence, im not into anyone..." "save yourself for someone whos great and who will love you more than i could..
i just don't want no one.. im content with loneliness!" And then she got uncomfortable and logged off of Facebook But what does all this mean? Yeah, she doesn't like me, but... I like her. And she joins clubs just to be with me. And she rejects other guys saying that she "couldn't do that to me." We are like super-best friends, and we love each other very much.... BUT SHE NO LIKE ME >:c everyone is upset with her for being like this lol

It sounds like she likes you but she doesn't want a boyfriend at all. She cares about you but does not want to be in a relationship. All you can do is stay friends with her for now and hope she gets over her resistance to relationships.

I agree. Don't rush anything. In my opinion being friends is the best beginning of love. Just be close to her and enjoy the time you spend together, don't talk about love too much. Now she knows how you feel, so she will probably think about it. All you can do is to hope, maybe she just need some time and eventually she'll change her mind. Be patient.

Sounds like she feels nothing for you. You just have to accept it and move on. Sometimes people are under a spell. Just allow her to move on, and you will definitely find someone so much better and more suited to you. Trust me on that. Let it go.

Someone once told me that no boy and girl can "just be friends". I used to disagree with this entirely until my best friend tried it on. It sounds like she is into you but just not ready for any sort of restriction or commitment. Just be patient, everyone here has given you great advice. Just carry on being a nice guy and she'll come around to you.

She sounds emotionally taxing. It's wrong of her to make these dramatic declarations of her feelings about you, then follow up with a "but I shall spend my nights in a tower of doom. As my loneliness and angst steadily bloom." Or was I the only one who read it like that? If she has been severely hurt in the past, I do sympathize with her. But since you are the one with the problem here, I say stop trying to pursue her because she doesn't want a relationship with you right now. No matter how perfect you think it will be, you are on two different pages.

If I have to be honest, no she is not into you. You'd better accept the fact that she might like you a lot as a friend, but she is not in love or attracted to you. It might be painful to accept but the sooner the better.

If she was interested, she wouldn't reject you. She was just trying to be nice and save your self esteem. Don't lose time running after her or hoping for something more. She likes you as a friend and nothing more.

It would have been more respectful from her to tll you the truth, but maybe she lost her means.

Sorry/

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